WE CREATED A
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Freelationship
BASED ON OUR VALUES
& VISIONS FOR THE FUTURE
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WE ENVISION A
World
"Where every person deserves to live in their fullest expression of who they are. By being deeply honest with their desires and fears so that they can co-create a relationship that is completely on their terms.
LOVE
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FULFILLED
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TEAMWORK
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ALIGNMENT
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FREEDOM
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AUTHENTICITY
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HONESTY
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EXPANSIVENESS
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CONNECTION
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COMMMITMENT
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CURIOSITY
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LOVE . FULFILLED . TEAMWORK . ALIGNMENT . FREEDOM . AUTHENTICITY . HONESTY . EXPANSIVENESS . CONNECTION . COMMMITMENT . CURIOSITY .
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SO WHAT IS A
Freelationship?
At the very core, a Freelationship is one that YOU CHOOSE TO CREATE based on your own values and visions for the future.
A place where we radically question any preconceived ideas of what we have been taught by society and truly choose from a sovereign and empowered place. Creating and evolving, as we humxns do, and intentionally reveal who we truly are, all while doing it together in whatever Freelationship you’ve decided to create.
How we have chosen to do FREElationship can be totally different from how you choose to create yours, but fundamentally what we believe makes a FREELATIONSHIP is one where you feel FREE and liberated to be exactly who you are.
SO WHAT IS YOUR IDEAL
Relationship?
These are questions to ask yourself about that can make you think more powerfully about how you could rethink relationship. Whether you’re in relationship or not these should prompt a great exploration.
1. What are your life values and how do you truly want to express them in your life?
2. What is one “societal norm” that you embody in your relationship that feel like you want to question or discard?
3. In an alternate reality if you felt free to experiment with different styles and dynamics in your relationship that may seem “crazy” what would they be?
4. If you had a genie and could change three things about your current/previous relationship, about how you live, interact, spend time together, what would those three wishes be?
5. In what ways, if any, does this current/previous relationship restrict you from pursuing something you truly desire?
If you are already in relationship, we have made a quiz for indivuals in partnership to see get some potential praise or discover some blind spots.
Relationship
Take our F*#& YES
Q U I Z
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THE COUPLE’S COMPASS
W O R K B O O K
Your GUIDE back to each other's HEARTS.
This workbook provides structured, practical exercises that foster deep, meaningful conversations.
Whether you're looking to heal rifts or build on a strong foundation, this tool helps you rediscover the joy of your partnership. Dive into sessions that teach you to communicate openly, appreciate each other anew, and collaboratively craft a future filled with excitement and understanding.
ABOUT US
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Marco Hansell & Anaya Joy
Our intention
“ To create a spiritual relationship, life, and thriving world filled with unconditional love that embodies everyone’s inner joy while being grounded in authenticity, integrity and existing in harmonious flow.”
Marco Hansell and Anaya Joy created this intention in the first month of their relationship and birthed the concept of Freelationship almost 6 years ago. They now live a relationship that is beyond their wildest dreams and they do it with a level of joy and ease that would typically seem impossible in the kind of dynamics and challenges they have faced.
They created a child together and navigate living in a relationship where they have deep honesty about EVERY bit of their thoughts and lives, feel FREE to change their opinions and desires, can choose to live separately, date other people guided only by the rule that they constantly check-in with and collaborate on how their relationship dynamic will continue every single day. They both describe this seemingly non-traditional relationship as the most committed, safe, expansive, exciting and supportive relationship either of them have ever experienced.
All of the lessons, practices and foundations of the Freelationship come from their realtime learnings of developing tools in realtime to solve their relationship issues and live true to their intention. They have broken through many layers of pre-programmed ways of relationship thinking and consider themselves relationship “possibitilitarians” in that they believe in seeing infinite possibilities in relationships, believe that all kinds of relationships, approaches and arrangements are possible, deserve an opportunity to be tried, and none are better or worse than another as long as they follow their intention or that couples harmonious intention.
Some of their combined superpowers are:
✸ Walking container of safety allowing people to go through tough realizations in the most loving way.
✸ Masters of Play that bring creativity and a childlike curiosity to relationship discovery.
✸ Strong intuitive powers for reflection and truth seeking.
✸ Ability to navigate traumatic experiences and transmute them into loving energy.
✸ Loving each other beyond the dynamics of the relationship and instead wishing for each other to be in their INDIVIDUAL highest good…even if that means breaking apart.
✸ Masters of energetics and recognizing stuck emotions.
✸ Systems minds that allow them to view complex relationship dynamics in a simplified fashion.
✸ Radical honesty…especially for the icky conversations most couples take with them to the grave.
✸ Not taking themselves too seriously and oftentimes breaking into fits of making fun of each other during tense times…in a loving way.
✸ Being a great TEAM Mana (Marco and Anaya).
✸ Seeking the TRUE Truth and not just what someone is saying.